Friday, May 30, 2008

Rough Night

When we first moved, I had wanted to keep the boys in the same bedroom and use our third bedroom as a playroom. But, I also wanted to give Ammon something to look forward to in the move and gave him his choice and he wanted his own room. Recently, however, Ammon has been saying that his room was scary and he would wake up at night looking for us. After a couple of days of this I sat down with him and asked him if it would make him feel better if his brother was in the room with him. Much to my delight, he said yes.
I mentioned to Andy that I wanted to combine the boys into one room. It would have been easier to move Ammon's stuff into Peter's room, but Peter's room is actually the one I wanted to use as the playroom, so it went the other way. I assumed I would have to take down the crib to get it through the doors, but when I mentioned that to Andy, he disagreed. So I figured that I could tackle the project myself while he was at work.

It didn't take too long to realize that the crib did NOT fit through the door, but since it was close, and Andy had really thought it would, I came up with this brilliant idea to just take off the bed springs which kept the crib in it's rectangle form, and try to smash the crib through the door that way. It didn't work.

Next I tried to take off just one side of the crib. Ammon and I each broke a piece off the crib, but they were pieces that probably didn't matter much, so I just kept going. This strategy sucessfully got the crib out of Peter's room and down the hallway, but Ammon's doorway faces the side of his bedroom closet so there is an extra twist to get all the way into the room. I pushed and pulled, often with one hand as Peter was in the other arm much of the time. I yelled and cried in frustration. I tried different angles and many different approaches finally getting so frustrated that bent it a little more than I meant to and I broke it! Ack. This time in a place that DID matter.

We have been wanting to get bunk beds for the boys for quite a while now, but were also planning on waiting a little longer before taking Peter out of the crib. I wonder if this is going to expidite that concept.

After taking a break to cool off, I went back and found a way to make the crib sleepable - for the short term, at least. I had made Enchiladas and Spanish Rice for lunch (the meal Andy was home for) and didn't feel like cooking again so I loaded the boys into the car and we went to Jack-In-the-Box.

We just went used the drive through to order our food and took it home to eat. I handed Ammon his food and asked him to give Peter a french fry. Pretty soon Peter was screaming bloody murder and I quickly realized that the french fry was probably too hot and had burned him. I asked Ammon if that was what had happened. He took a while to answer and the conversation got really frustrating. In the mean time poor little Peter was screaming like I have never seen him scream. It was un-relenting. Suddenly I realized what was going on and started to yell, "where is the french fry? Is it still burning him?"

Ammon still was having a hard time helping me through the chaos of screams. I eventually pulled over and jumped back to see what was going on. Poor little Peter had dropped the french fry and it had gotten stuck between his leg and his car seat. The burn is pretty bad! Fortunately I had tylenol right there in the car so I gave him some immediately, and took ice out of Ammon's drink to put on Peter's leg. That got him to stop crying long enough to get him home.

Peter usually goes to bed around 7:30. Lately, he has been fussy as all get-out by 6:00. Last night, however, he wasn't at all tired and stayed up until 9:30. It was frustrating. I wonder, though, if the tylenol kept him up. Still, I was hoping to get the boys to bed, do some cleaning, and get to bed early myself.

Around midnight I finally drug myself to bed. I was happy with the cleaning I was able to accomplish, but not at all pleased with the time. An hour later Peter was crying and I got up with him. It was only a few minutes and I was able to get him back to sleep. But then, two hours after that he was crying again. In three hours of sleep, I had been woken up twice and this time Peter wasn't going back to bed. The nice thing was that Andy was scheduled to be off and should be driving home about that time so I thought maybe he could stay up with Peter for the half hour or so it would take for Peter to wind back down.

An hour later Andy still wasn't home and Peter was still awake. What a nightmare of a night! I finally got back to bed sometime between 4:30 and 5:00 when Andy did get home and was able to stay up with Peter for me. It's been a rough morning but finally Andy is sleeping and - the real miracle - so is Peter!

Dad is coming today, and I sure hope our nights go better than this while he is here!

3 comments:

  1. Sounds like a nightmare day. One of those ones you REALLY wish you could go back and start over. But at least it IS over, and hopefully things will be a lot better from here.

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  2. Wow - I get tired just reading about it! Hope things smooth out soon. :-)

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  3. Poor Peter! I hope his leg is okay. I hate nights when they don't sleep well.

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We, the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children.All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshiped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize his or her divine destiny as an heir of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God's commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.We declare the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God's eternal plan.Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. "Children are an heritage of the Lord" (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.We warn that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

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