Missing Daddy

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Missing Daddy

I don't know that any day is really 'easy' but today was an especially hard day for us as we missed having Daddy around. I have been fretting like nothing else about the fact that we had no present for Andy to open so we finally came up with something and (spending a small fortune) had it shipped out today. Ammon helped with the wrapping and he was excited to send the packages to Daddy. But, I realized as we were driving to the UPS Store, Ammon thought we were going to deliver the gifts in person. He was really excited.

"Where is Daddy? Is he at the airport or something?" (Made sense since that is the last place we saw him.)

"No Ammon, Daddy is far away in New Mexico."

"New Mexico? Do we get to fly on a plane?"

"No Ammon, not for a long time still. We are taking the present to the mailman and the mailman will take it to Daddy for us."

"The mailman? (pause) Oh." (silence)

Anyway, I didn't expect it, but sending Andy's gifts to him, which I thought was something to help connect us for the holiday just ended up emphasising the distance between us. After we shipped the package Ammon put on his hat and thought of Daddy while we drove. I know he misses Andy so much, but he is a cute trooper of a little boy and is handling it so well.

3 comments:

UnknownDecember 21, 2007 at 2:51 PM
He looks so adorable in the hat! I love it. Cute, but so sad of a story.
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AnonymousDecember 23, 2007 at 9:06 AM
I miss him too. I hope he does ok. I counted the weeks by Sundays with him. There are 9 more Sundays until he gets to come to NM to see me.

Love you all.
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Two Restless RetireesDecember 24, 2007 at 9:54 AM
The hat is a really good connection. Maybe emphasizing putting the hat on when you are especially missing him will help -- even if he wears it all the time...
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