Sunday, July 22, 2012

Andrew's Talk About Sacrifice



I would like to start my remarks this morning by posing a question. My question for all of us is:

How do we show our commitment to the Savoir?

I submit to you brothers and sisters that our commitment is demonstrated at least in part by our willingness to sacrifice and by our acts of service.

I would like to share with you a few examples of that I believe illustrate this point.

Prophet Joseph
The Prophet Joseph Smith’s life gives us an example of one who showed his commitment through sacrifice and service. His life was full given to the Lord and His purposes. He stands as an example if one who consistently did what he was asked regardless of the cost to himself. He was willing not only to die for the cause of Christ and the Gospel he was willing to live for it. His life provided a great example of sacrifice and commitment to the Lord.

Our Commitments
Most of us will not be asked to die for our testimonies of the gospel however, we are asked to sacrifice in a number of ways. Each sacrifices whether great or small will show the Lord that we are committed to Him.

Typically we are asked to serve in callings, as home and visiting teachers, on committees or in an auxiliary presidency, bishopric or some other capacity. We are asked to serve in the temple, both as patrons and as temple workers. We are also asked to serve each other as neighbors and friend. Each of these types of service will require sacrifice on our part. When we sacrifice for the benefit of other and serve faithfully in church callings and assignments the Lord recognizes our commitment to Him and His work.

Whatever the case may be sacrifice is never easy. But, we are willing to make the sacrifice because we love the Lord and want to serve Him.

Missionary Sacrifice
One of the most visible sacrifices today is that of our full-time missionaries. We have 50,000 young men and young women who have put off education and other worthy pursuits to share the gospel message. An additional 5,000 couples have put off their retirement to serve.

“They devote from six months to two years of their lives to teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ and providing humanitarian service in more than 160 countries in the world. Their work always involves sacrifice, including the years they give to the work of the Lord and also the sacrifices made in providing funds for their support.”

When President Hinckley was asked by a minister of another faith how we motivate our missionaries to provide this extraordinary service he simply replied “We just ask.”

Member Sacrifices
We serve and sacrifice in a variety of way in our own lives each day. This service can be in many forms. Some of our opportunities to serve come as a direct result of a church calling or assignment.

 I would like to share some experiences I have had with sacrifice related to church callings. I am sure many of you could provide similar experiences from your church service. 

Home Teaching
As a home teacher, Late one night I received a phone call from the Sister Avery; she told me that her husband had been very ill with an infection. She asked me to provide a priesthood blessing. I called another brother in our ward and together we gave the blessing. Brother Avery had a short stay in the hospital but made speedy recovery. The following Sunday I noticed the family was not at church. It was announced in Priesthood meeting that Sister Avery had become very ill and was in the hospital to have her gallbladder removed. After Church I went to hospital to see what I could. A blessing had already been provided by her husband another family member. Later that same month their infant daughter was ill and I was asked to assist Brother Avery in providing a blessing for their daughter.

Husband to the RS President
In our last ward I was extended a calling that gave me great satisfaction and also required more sacrifice than any I had held before. Our Bishop called Jenny and I into his office and extended to her, the calling of Relief Society President. He then looked at me and said with all seriousness, "Andrew, this is a calling for you too. You will be the husband of the Relief Society President. You will be her counselor and partner in this. You will not know everything that she does, but she will need your help with this calling." I took my calling seriously and helped as much as I could. I think in most cases she found the advice of her counselors to be more valuable than what I offered, but when she could include me she did.

I found that the sacrifices I was making more often than not was holding things like making dinner when she was gone in the evening for meetings or visiting with a sister who needed her. There were some nights when she was going about the Lord’s work in our little ward and we did not have time together. I saw her sacrifice time that should have been used studying to help the sisters in our ward. It was not unusual for her to look out our window into the apartment common area and see a sister that she felt impressed to just go visit with. We had a sister who had specific needs that arose in the ward and I saw the Lord work though Jenny to identify other women in the ward who were able to provide assistance.

The times when Jenny was gone, our boys would miss her at dinner and bedtime especially. I did my best to teach them that mom was doing her calling - that we all missed her but what she was doing was important.

It is times like these that we show the Lord that we are committed to Him and His gospel.

New Member Sacrifices
Others who make sacrifices are new converts to the church in a recent conference address Elder Oaks relate the following account of a young man who joined the church while studying in the United States.

“As this man was about to return to his native land, President Gordon B. Hinckley asked him what would happen to him when he returned home as a Christian. ‘My family will be disappointed,’ the young man answered. ‘They may cast me out and regard me as dead. As for my future and my career, all opportunity may be foreclosed against me.’
‘Are you willing to pay so great a price for the gospel?’ President Hinckley asked.
Tearfully the young man answered, ‘It’s true, isn’t it?’ When that was affirmed, he replied, ‘then what else matters?’”

Parents’ Story
My parents joined the Church separately as teenagers to this day they are each the only members of their families who have joined the Church on this side of the veil.

My father completed a full time mission in Germany. After her returned home they were engaged.

Together, they made the difficult choice to forgo a traditional wedding that their families and friends could attend and chose to be sealed for time and all eternity to in the House of the Lord.  As my mother once stated "We would rather disappoint our earthly parents than our Heavenly parents."

They made the long drive from Burlington, Vermont to Washington, DC knowing that whatever the fallout might be the Lord was pleased with their choice.

As a result of that choice my mom’s mother would not speak to our family for several years following their wedding.

However, the greater impact was the example that was set for future generations. Their choice, to be sealed in the temple, has had a positive influence on their three children and 13 grandchildren. Because of their sacrifice they have sent two sons on missions and seen their three children sealed in the temple. Their commitment to the Savior was made clear by their sacrifices.

Temple Service/Sacrifice
We also show our commitment by serving in the temple. Here in the Salt Lake Valley we are blesses to have 4 temples. Yesterday morning I wanted to go to the temple and because Oquirrh Mountain is closed I had to go ALL the way to Jordan River.

While temples are beginning to “dot the earth” as President Brigham Young prophesied, there are still many members who do not have the luxury of having 4 temples within a 20 min driving distance.

Bishop Wassain’s Story
I recall when I arrived in Baton Rouge, LA, in September of 1998, as a missionary the members were very excited for the temple recently announced, and under construction in Houston, TX because it would only be about 4 hours away instead of  instead of the nearly 8 hours they were traveling to Dallas, TX to attend the temple. On Oct. 14th 1998 the Baton Rouge, LA temple was announced. The temple was dedicated on July, 16th of 2000, just one month before I left. During that time I was serving in Houma, LA about 80 miles southwest of Baton Rouge.  During fast and testimony meeting the August following temple dedication the Bishop of the stood up and said:

“The most amazing thing happened to me yesterday. I woke up in my own bed yesterday morning. I drove to the temple and did several endowment sessions. I drove home and this morning I woke up in my own bed.”

At first his statement that this was “Amazing” to him struck me as odd. Then I realized he has never done that before. He had always had to make long drives both ways and would need to stay in a hotel for at least one night, if not two.

No matter how far we have to travel, whether two miles or 200 miles, temple attendance is a sacrifice of time and provides a great service for those who have gone before us.

I know that as we sacrifice and serve the Lord to the very best of our abilities he will bless us the greater strength, and an increased ability to serve and do his work. Our sacrifices both great and small show Him that we love him and that we are committed to the gospel.

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Family Proclamation

The First Presidency and Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

We, the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children.All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshiped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize his or her divine destiny as an heir of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God's commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.We declare the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God's eternal plan.Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. "Children are an heritage of the Lord" (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.We warn that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah.

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