Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Juneau Stake Youth Conference 2015

I had the opportunity to attend Youth Conference with eight of the youth from our branch. President Ericksen was the other leader who went.

The travel to the conference was extensive. The event we were attending was scheduled for two and a half days. The boys going will have been gone for eight days when all is said and done. The girls stayed even longer to attend girls camp the following week.

The travel:

Tuesday morning get up in time to be at the Hollis ferry terminal by 7:30 AM. For most of us that meant leaving our house before 6:30 in the morning.

Arrive in Ketchikan at 11:00. 

WAIT until around 9:00 PM when the Alaska Marine Highway Ferry docks. Load for departure scheduled at 10:45 PM.

Arrive in Juneau around 5:00 PM the next day. (Wednesday)

Conference begins at 4:00 Thursday afternoon.

In Ketchikan we were able to spend some of our extra time taking the kids to see the Lumberjack show and shopping. We spent lots of time at both Wal-Mart and the Plaza. President Ericksen brought his truck over from Prince of Wales. I called Sister Susan Merrill who was willing to lend me her car. Each vehicle held five passengers so it worked out perfectly for our group of ten. The youth who attended from our branch were: Tyson Scamahorn, Owen Chadwick, Dominic Stephens, Lewis House, and Cayden Bird with the Young Men and Cailin Bailey, Aubrilyn King and Courtney King with the Young Women. Morgan Bird opted to fly up on Thursday (on his own dime) to join us. Aubri and Courtney joined us in Ketchikan coming home from their summer in Utah/Colorado.

The sleeping arrangements on the ferry were less than ideal - we were all but in the closed bar area which provided an enclosed room for us to keep our group. We had joined the Ketchikan ward (who also had kids from Metlakatla with them) and were a group of nearly 50. We had young men on one side of the room and young women on the other side. I went to sleep after midnight, woke once around 1:30 and again around 2:30. At that point, the people next to me decided to start a movie on a laptop computer. It was loud so I decided to go sleep on one of the lounge chairs upstairs. I slept there until about 5:30 at which point I was awake for the rest of the day. The remaining ferry ride was pleasant, though. We had gorgeous weather and it was smooth sailing. I enjoyed the time to get to know the kids. Sister Mattsen even held a dance for the kids which was a great warm up for the two stake dances they attended during the conference.

Finally we arrived at our destination. My housing assignment in Juneau was with my three girls and another girl from a different unit. President Ericksen told me I had a great housing assignment and that he was jealous. We were sent to Bishop Brent Tingey's home. Apparently they know each other professionally from earlier in their careers.

President Ericksen was correct - Bishop Tingey had a beautiful home and his wife Amber was very pleasant to spend time with. I enjoyed my interactions with both of them. They were kind enough to feed us dinner that first night, breakfast the next morning, snacks in between various activities and shuttle us back and forth to the different events. Before the conference started, they also helped transport us to the Mendenhall Glacier and Fred Meyer for more shopping.

The conference itself wasn't perfect, but the memory of the experiences quickly overshadows the imperfections and the focus becomes the powerful spirit that was felt throughout those few days. It was wonderful for the youth, and I think I was at least as spiritually fed as they were.

I left my group early - on Sunday morning - the fly back to Ketchikan in time to catch the Sunday evening ferry. I learned that I would be on the same flight as Sister Lana Youngberg who is the wife of the Stake President. I asked if she would be willing to give me a ride from the airport to the church. She said she would and, in fact, I ended up spending my entire day with her both between our arrival in Ketchikan until church began and then after church until I needed to catch the ferry.

In the morning she was busy preparing for teaching her Relief Society lesson and with practicing a song she was playing for a special musical number. As I sat in her home listening to her play, and pondering the things the spirit had been teaching me in the previous days I was overcome with a great sense of peace. It took me a few moments, but I began to recognize the familiarity of that feeling. It was as if I were in the chapel at the temple, waiting to attend an endowment session. Although I have heard the concept of making our homes likes temples, this was probably the most tangible experience I have ever had of really feeling that. I felt like the cleanliness of her home, combined with the righteousness of those who lived there, and the power of the music she was playing were all factors in such an atmosphere. It also reminded me of the cleanliness of Amber Tingey's home and I resolved to work to improve the order of my home and also of my body. These were thoughts that were on my mind during the conference but they seemed to be confirmed in that moment.
Church was wonderful with lots of friendly faces. Afterwards, Sister Youngberg invited me back to her home. She fed me a quesadilla for lunch and we chatted about a variety of things. I learned more about her background, different experiences and counsel about raising children, random thoughts about various family dynamics etc. At one point I found myself nearly in tears simply from the feeling of the spirit that was there. She is a good decade younger than my mom, but she felt like a motherly figure, teaching me and being an example of someone I could follow. Our time together was a perfect capstone to an already wonderful week. I enjoyed the time with the kids, I enjoyed the time with the Tingey's. I enjoyed the time with the Ketchikan ward, and I enjoyed the time with Sister Youngberg.

Soon it was time to get on the ferry and head home. The three hour ride was a bit more gray than I would have preferred, but it was calm and peaceful. And pretty soon I was back home with my family, whom I missed immensely while I was gone!

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Family Proclamation

The First Presidency and Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

We, the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children.All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshiped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize his or her divine destiny as an heir of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God's commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.We declare the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God's eternal plan.Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. "Children are an heritage of the Lord" (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.We warn that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah.

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