Monday, August 25, 2014

Almost 8 Months Old

Laurel Elizabeth Shadel
7 1/2 months old

My baby is growing way too quickly for my taste! It's been an absolute delight to have her in our life. That isn't to say that it has been easy or without it's challenges. It has been everything that is real about having a baby. Mostly that means REALLY exhausting!
I think I spent the first four months of Laurie's life holding her non-stop. I LOVED it. I took countless pictures of her and was just completely enamored. There were moments where I was "done" and just needed a break from holding a baby. But those moments were always quickly fleeting and never compared to the immense about of joy I have had at being her mom and at holding her in my arms.

I was really sick during her actual delivery so I don't remember much about it except for them saying that she was big so they were trying to figure out how to maneuver her out of me without having make the incision any larger. My first real memory of her was the way she latched on to nurse for the first time. She just chomped down and started eating like a pro.
In Utah (at six months old) she started eating "real" food.
She loves cheerios, graham crackers, carrot sticks (to chew on) and anything else she can get in her mouth.

That just kind of set the stage for the kind of baby she is. As an infant she has been a great sleeper, a great pooper and a great eater.


Laurie is starting to sit really well.
She doesn't scoot yet, though she's been trying to figure it out for at least two months now.

Laurie has always had a late bedtime. She is usually down by about midnight, although there have been times that I have been up with her later than that. Regardless of what time she goes down, she almost always wakes up to eat around 1:00. She wakes up again around 3:30 and then sometimes she wants to eat again around 6:00. She never plays during the night - just eats and goes back to sleep. She went through a phase where she had a hard time being put down (she may have been teething,) so I slept in the chair holding her. I did that with her when she was first born, too. Then I got to the point where I was sooo tired that I would fall asleep nursing her and sleep holding her in the chair by default. I am starting to come out of that phase, now, and am excited to be spending more time back in my own bed. When Laurie was born I was good at following that age old counsel to sleep when the baby sleeps. Usually by 6:00 in the morning I was exhausted (just from the several feedings during the day) so Andrew would get up and take care of Laurie if needed. He would also get the boys out the door and to school. On occasion Laurie would want to eat so I would get up long enough to feed her again. And then she and I would both go back to bed - generally at least until 10:00 - sometimes later. Unfortunately that trained her a little too well. She expects to eat all night long (at the times I mentioned before) and then is completely fine to go through the morning without much food at all. Again, that was fine while the boys were in school, but since summer came, it has been EXHAUSTING. (Which is why I started falling asleep feeding her at night.) Our trip to Utah was beastly. I did get her to fall asleep by midnight there, but instead of just two to three times of getting up with her, I was getting up with her FOUR times a night and then even when I tried over and over again to feed her in the morning, she didn't want food until noon. So, at almost eight months old, I am trying to figure out how to shift her six-eight hours of not eating to be during the night instead of in the morning.
Laurie started out with the same dairy allergy that my other two had. She got really gassy and had a rough time of it. Lucky for her, I knew what I was doing this time around and was able to quickly solve that problem with a combined effort of going off of dairy for a few months and using gas drops more than I did with Ammon and Peter. Also, just like this girl knew how to eat, she figured out the pooping thing REALLY fast. She is noisy and grunts and really works at it sometimes, but she gets the job done. She has had more blow outs than either of my boys EVER did. (I'm talking almost daily sometimes.) I don't know if that has to do with the diapers I'm using, her body shape, or the quantity or texture of her poop. But whatever the reason - no child ever stained as many clothes as she!
Laurie is very loved by her big brothers and they enjoy including her in their play time.
It is common for prayers to include the phrase, "We are grateful for the joy that Laurie has brought to our family."
Andrew and I must have said that once and now the boys repeat it ALL the time.
Caring for her in Utah was exhausting. We traveled to Utah just as she hit the six month mark. Her first two teeth grew in the day we traveled. I feel like it was during that trip that she really changed and that infancy stage came to a complete end. I was worried that I wasn't going to enjoy the next phase as much. I was so much more worn out and she was getting so much more active. I was missing the hours of just sitting and holding her. But once we got home and I was a little more rested, those concerns quickly melted away. She is the happiest little girl in the universe and I just can't help but feel joyful spending my days with her. She loves to smile, grin and laugh.
This girl LOVES her daddy.
But she'll never love him as much as he loves her.
Laurie loves her daddy. She is just starting to get more opinionated about life. The other day she downright REFUSED to eat turkey and rice baby food. We switched it out for something with fruit and she ate the entire container. When she sees Daddy come home she gets really happy. He has about 1.2 seconds to be holding her or she will start to cry. (And of course he is never able to get her in his arms quite that quickly so it is always so funny to see her go from giggling joy to heartbroken sobs in such a short period of time.)



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Family Proclamation

The First Presidency and Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

We, the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children.All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshiped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize his or her divine destiny as an heir of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God's commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.We declare the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God's eternal plan.Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. "Children are an heritage of the Lord" (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.We warn that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah.

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