One evening while Andrew was working, Peter and I went to Scout's with Ammon.
He had earned all sorts of awards and was even advanced to the rank of Wolf.
We were super proud of him and I was sad that Andy couldn't be there.
Even though I get a "mother's pin", it is really the dad in this house that makes scout's happen.
We were so excited to tell Andrew about Ammon's achievements.
We were surprised to find that Andrew was upset by the news.
Knowing much more about scout's than I do, Andrew knew there were several at home requirements that we hadn't worked on with Ammon.
While he didn't want to take Ammon's sense of success away, he also wanted to make sure Ammon felt pride in working for his rank.
This was an experience I hope Ammon always remembers.
After fretting over it for a good time, striving so earnestly to do the right thing, Andrew sat down with Ammon to have a talk.
Andrew explained that Ammon hadn't done anything wrong.
He hadn't been deceitful in obtaining his rank.
But we also showed him that there were things we still needed to do before it was truly earned.
We had recently asked Ammon to read a children's book about integrity.
Drawing on that, he understood the concept and agreed that he wanted to have integrity with his rank.
And so despite having the badge in hand, Andy and Ammon went to work on meeting the remaining wolf requirements.
I couldn't be more proud of both of them!

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