Date Night

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Date Night

A week or so ago my mother-in-law mentioned a Bell Choir Concert at Temple Square that she had tickets for. As she often does, she offered to give us tickets. As I often do, I thought, well, that would be nice, but since I don't have a babysitter, it probably won't work. But practically before I could even finish that thought she offered to babysit as well! Whoo hoo! So for the first time in way too long, Andy and I had a really great date night.

The babysitting offer was extended for well before the time of the concert and on to well after. When was the last time I was able to get out with my husband and without worrying about rushing there and back? I can't even begin to remember. At first we were just appreciative of the offer but felt a little poor for going out to dinner. But Andy got a promotion at work (it is a temporary position for the holidays, but we are hoping it will turn into permanent and if nothing else it builds his resume) so we decided to bite the bullet, pull together every spare penny we had and actually go out for a nice meal. After dinner we met some great friends at the Tabernacle and then spent late into the night nibbling fudge, drinking hot chocolate and visiting.

Although Andy and I make it a point to have our own "date nights" at home when the kids are in bed, it was amazing to get out and have a "real" date. I can't remember the last time I felt so free from the responsibilties of my children, so eager to be with him, and so quick to laugh and enjoy life with my husband.

So I just want to say a big Thank You to my Shadel Mom and Dad who made it all happen!

1 comment:

TiffanyNovember 24, 2008 at 12:43 PM
Yea for date nights! We had a great time too, thanks for helping us get out as well. We should do it again soon!
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The First Presidency and Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

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